Beautiful Hangover is a newsletter about striving to be authentic in a culture that pushes you to pretend.
Growing up, I found the social side of life really difficult. I turned to alcohol to help, but that became its own problem. At 33 I got sober, and at 37 I discovered I was autistic. At 38 I was diagnosed with inattentive ADHD.
Which kinda explained the struggle for all those years.
This newsletter is about how to accept and love yourself: quirks, trauma, disability, gifts and all. I will share lessons, victories and failures in my quest for more authenticity, and I hope you will do the same.
I aim to publish every Tuesday, and to start a thread or chat every Friday. (Apart from when I can't because I need to lie down and can't do anything. #burnoutisreal)
Subscribe if you want more self-acceptance, joy and fun, and less perfectionism, codependency and self-sabotage.
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I’m an award-winning YA novelist and a senior lecturer in Creative Writing at UWE. Here’s a rave review of my first book, Infinite Sky, in the Guardian.
I’m currently working on a literary memoir about getting sober and discovering I’m neurodiverse AF, and how plants helped me to heal. Beautiful Hangover: how a late autism diagnosis helped me make peace with a drunken past, as well as a new YA book about time travel in a forest.
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