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I really relate to this, especially needing time to process things when others seem to instantly respond. I sometimes still find now that when I'm ready to respond, the conversation has moved on.

I found psychology books on body language useful to engage with others but then I would get so caught up in reading and practicing the body language that following the conversation was harder. I think it came from a place of masking but proved to be a useful tool for relating to others.

I really like your blog 🙂

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Thanks Kirk! I get that, too, with the conversation moving on. It's frustrating sometimes, but I guess that's why I write so much. It's interesting how many neurodivergent types are drawn to psychology. I was too, and looking back I wonder if it was because I found people (and being a person) so confusing. Thanks for reading. : )

Is there anything you would be particularly interested in reading about?

Chelsey x

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Hi Chelsey 🙂

I do find writing helpful. I wanted to be a writer when I was younger, and I found writing letters to people, including my parents, useful when I couldn't find the right space or time to express myself in person. I found it so therapeutic when my dog died too.

I would like to know more about special interests in women. Writing and psychology both seem to be common themes but I wonder (other than utility) why we have them and what determines our choices.

Thanks, Kirk 😃

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